Tuesday, July 26, 2011
1st Blog
Our beliefs: no matter who you are, everyone go through challenges, obstacles....but what matters is how u deal with all of that...we surely all have an opportunity for greatness but we have to have a determination to better ourselves. The reality of life is about moving forward. You have to know that each and everybody in this world can make a difference and your existence means a lot to this world. You need to understand that there is purpose for everything that happens in your life and there are better days ahead so knowing that, you have to be happy with a few nice things you have saved and worked so hard for. The lives we live are the live we make, you either live life or lives life lives you. Anyhow, believe that things will get better. For every problems, try to look for their solutions, to resolve them. Be proud of who you are and what you have, believe in your self, trust in and be honest of your self. If you don't have the courage to deal with challenges, the strength to confront them, move forward, take charge and let it go, you have less chance to be happy in your life because this plays a huge role in your relationship with your environment, social life. Being optimistic makes easy your trial on confronting all the obstacles in life.
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I really enjoyed reading your blog; it was vey powerful!
ReplyDeleteYou mentioned that each of us have a importnat role in this world and that our "existence means a lot to this world". How do we convince others that they do matter and their existence in this world matters? I ask this question to myself all the time. Many young teenagers are committing suicide because they are bullied at school or told that they are worthless by thier loved ones. To see this and know that this is happening hurts me.
Dr. Chapman who wrote The 5 love languages argues that we all have "emotional love tank" and we all desire to have it remain full. However, some lack love from home, friends or just socially. Therefore, they end up having low self-esteem. So, how do we convince them they matter or their exisitance on earth matters when others have broken them down?
I don't expect you to have the answer just want to know if you though about it?
Great blog.
That's a very good question because this was the interesting topic that motivated me to dig the meaning and point of every subject of this book though i didn't finish reading it. To answer the question how we can convince others that their existence matters to the world; what i think the best advice is to let them know every creature have a destiny, fortune and have unlimited potential, is unique. This world needs the variety of those potentials to change. As i mentioned it on my previous blog, no matter how many mistakes we have made, how badly we screwed up, how old we become, as long as there is true, steadfast ambition, all of us have an opportunity for greatness. we all can deal with our problems. the most important thing is how determined we are to better ourself, how strong we are to believe that there is a better tomorrow, better days ahead, everything happens for a reason. If we don't believe and trust in ourself,if we lost our confidence, it's hard for others to believe how worthy you are. You have to know in life that in order not to be disapointed and make the worst decision, we have to limit our expectations (we don't have 2 have high expectations). Hope for the best and think for the worst is the best quote to explain and summerize what i wanna answer to ur question.
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